Certified Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Couples Therapist, EFT Supervisor Candidate, Registered Member MBACP, MNCS(Acc), Relate CC Cert
Hello. Welcome.
I am an experienced couples, relationship and marriage guidance counsellor. I specialize in couples counselling and have a full time private practice focusing on it exclusively.
For Oxford clients I offer couples counselling online only.
In the past I worked for Relate Oxford for 10 years between 2005 - 2015 combining this with working in private practice since 2010. In addition I also offer supervision to colleagues who see couples in their counselling practice.
"Are you having a difficult time together and wanting some support for your relationship?
Communication may be difficult between you resulting in tension and arguing or perhaps one or both of you are feeling discouraged and shut off.
Maybe you even get on okay on the surface but realise that the spark you once had is missing.
Either way my guess is that you both may need some support and do not know how to fix it on your own.
The reassuring news is that there has been a tremendous advance through science and research in our understanding of the issues that are at the core of all couple problems and most importantly how to resolve them.
The way I work is warm, supportive and helps you both feel heard, understood and entitled to your experience. It is also powerful and encouraging and helps you both know how to get out of the stuck pattern and cycle you have been caught in together and move forward."
To find out more please Call me on 07890 850563 or e-mail me at n.haynes54@gmail.com
As a couples counsellor I have a wide experience of the types of difficulties that may be triggering problems in your relationship.
These can include:
- Arguments,fights and tension
- Inappropriate fighting such as pushing, hitting, swearing directly, throwing things.
- Affairs - feeling of betrayal and loss of trust, guilt
- Communication issues - we can't or don't talk anymore
- Lack of intimacy and connection
- Feeling emotionally disconnected with your partner
- Sexual relationship and loss of or change in interest
- Not feeling wanted or loved by your partner
- Aspergers Syndrome in relationships
- Feelings for your partner have changed
- Not sure about the future together
- If you have young children, not spending enough quality time as a couple
- Anxiety and insecurity
- Differences over money
- If Internet pornography addiction is affecting your relationship together
This is by no means a comprehensive list but may include some of the issues that you are experiencing in your relationship.
If you would like to consider coming for counselling whether face to face or online our first meeting is an assessment session. It is an independent and stand alone session that will give you an opportunity to decide if you want more sessions but does not commit you to them.
For an appointment please Call 07890 850563 or e-mail me at n.haynes54@gmail.com
Location
Face to face counselling sessions are held at:
The Practice Rooms
2A, South Parade, Summertown
Oxford, OX2 7JL
The clinic is in South Parade, Summertown and is situated behind A Cut Above Men's Hairdressing. Local parking rules apply and the clinic is situated within 50 yards of a main street with busy bus routes.
